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Patrick Wilson Balance Mind Coaching

About Patrick

There has always been an interplay between my personal process and the coaching that I offer.  I think it is really important that everyone who works in the helping professions is doing their own work. How can you be a good guide if you haven’t taken the journey yourself?

 

​I learned a unique way to work with my mind and my body as I worked to confront and resolve the challenges in my own life.  I spent most of my life as a pretty anxious person that avoided uncomfortable situations, and worked really hard to look like I had things figured out.  I didn’t feel very comfortable in my body, so I spent a lot of time in my head where I would continually sift through the past and try to predict and control the future.  On top of that, I struggled with addictive patterns that made it difficult for me to know myself, and connect with others in a way that felt honest and fulfilling. My personal journey has involved spending more time connecting with my own experience and my body by using breathwork, chanting and vocalization, movement and exercise, massage and lots of relaxation practices.  Along with these somatic practices, I spend less time and energy engaged with my mind, and work to be present with my moment-to-moment experience, and be actively engaged with projects that I feel excited and passionate about.​

​I was originally trained through the Co-Active Training Institute (www.coactive.com), and have integrated a number of other modalities into my coaching over the years including skills related to Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and somatic coaching. I have had a life coaching practice since 2007, and have predominantly focused on supporting young adults and parents of teens and young adults.​

 

My wife Rebecca and I live in Boulder, Colorado and are the proud parents of two amazing young women who also live in the Boulder/Denver area.

Am I the right coach for you?

One way to determine if I am the right person to support you is by asking the following questions:
 
Are you excited/happy/satisfied with your life?
 
Are you doing the things that you want to be doing?
 
If you answer yes to both, then you are doing great!  Keep going with what you are doing!  You probably don’t need a coach.
 
If you answer no to one or both questions, then ask yourself the following question:
 
Do you want to change?
 
If you answer no, then you can reflect on this tension that exists because you are not satisfied with your life and/or aren’t doing the things you want to be doing, but also don’t want to change.  What is getting in the way?  What are the beliefs that are preventing you from wanting to change?  If you are interested in exploring this inner conflict, please reach out to set up a complimentary exploratory call where we will explore the conflict that you are experiencing and help you to find new perspectives that will invite more openness to change!
 
If you do want to change, then there is one more question to ask yourself:
 
Do you know what to do differently, and are you able to make the changes you need to make?
 
If you are able to make those changes, then get to it!  If you are not sure or feel unable to make those changes, then I could be a valuable asset in identifying the places that you feel stuck, and then working together to create strategies to make these changes so you can start doing the stuff that is important, and allow you to feel excited about your life. Again, please reach out to set up a complementary exploratory call if you would like to balance how you engage with your mind, and find ways to take action that aligns with your values and creates excitement.

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